Steps to plan a successful threesome

9 out of 10 men are obsessed with the idea of having a threesome. However, according to a recently conducted survey on one of the most popular tinder for couples as well as tinder for couples, only 3 out 10 men have ever had the chance to put their ideas into practice. So what exactly made having a threesome such a hard task to accomplish? We asked a few relationship counselors with more than 10 years experiences who specialize in kinky dating, threesome hookup as well as feeld dating, few people have gotten the essence of planning a successful threesome when it comes to real life. Thus, in order to optimize the chance for the swingers who live a swinging lifestyle to pursue the pleasure in having a three way relationship, experts have compiled 3 most important steps in planning a threesome that’s worth remembering.

Choosing a right three way partner is the very first as well as the most complicated steps among all. Once you mess it up, there is a very big chance that you would ruin your relationship with your partner. Thus, it is not exaggerating at all to say selecting a compatible three way partner is something can be celebrated as art. To find a right threesome partner, you can either try your luck on one of those threesome dating apps dedicated to the needs of couples seeking women as well as women seeking couples. If you have more specific preferences such as wife sharing or wife threesome, google online with three some dating apps plus the key words and a slew of results will come out within a second. Amid such a large member base you will find on three some dating websites, how to find the most compatible person to join you and your partner in the bedroom? The key is to be totally honest and straightforward. There is no point hiding your twisting your own sexual preferences or dislikes, otherwise you will only end up get your time wasted. 

After you have found a compatible third one in the bedroom, sit down and talk it out three of you. Let’s just lay everything out on the table without and timidness or lies. In this way you will get to know your everyone’s expectations and big NO NOs. Also, it is strongly recommended to set the ground rules with your partner and the third one if you ever have the intention to try something extreme.

Last but not least, pay attention to the settings. Having a threesome is not only limited to sex itself anymore. It is also related to the art to build a connection. It is totally normal to feel a bit self conscious first when you are about to get naked in front of two pairs of eyes, thus, set the bedroom in whatever way that would make you comfortable. Also, do whatever make your self feel comfortable, since the ultimate goal of trying out threesome lifestyle is to have fun!